I’m a big fan of The Secret and after going through a difficult few years following the break-up of my marriage I came across The Secret book, by chance, two years ago. At the time I was really lonely and felt a huge void in my life, a void that I felt could only be filled by a relationship with another man. I asked the universe to find me a new man. I did meet some men but none of them worked out. All the men I met were for some reason or another not interested in a long term relationship… I felt The Secret wasn’t working for me. I bought the DVD and it filled me with hope.

I put together a vision board, and finally decided that if I couldn’t find the prefect man, I asked the universe to grant me peace of mind and acceptance of the way things are. At this stage I just wanted to be content and happy. I now realise of course that I can only be responsible for my own happiness, and that I need to learn to love myself first. I now know I have been working against my requests to the universe (without knowing it) because deep down some part of my felt that I didn’t deserve a loving, committed, long term relationship. I really truly believe that The Secret works and that maybe in its own way, I had to be in a better place myself in order to attract the best relationship for me.

There has been one man in my life on and off for the last two and half years, I believe we could really be happy together, but any time we get close he seems to get scared and intentionally puts distance between us. I asked the universe for better contact between us and this has really worked!!

I’m hoping that if it’s the best thing for BOTH of us, he will realise that we can be happy together and we can have a proper committed loving relationship together. I’ve also learnt that I have to let go, and allow the universe to do its work, and not worry how it will happen. I do have negative times, but I read stories on this site, and am filled with hope again.

So I know I will be writing again soon, with news about Steve if it’s meant to be, or else about someone who is the best person for me. I know that it is only a matter of time.

I am so grateful to the universe for helping me to find the real me and while it was difficult at times, I know I had to go through these experiences and then come out the other side happy and fulfilled (which is what I asked the universe for!!)

Thanks a million. Looking forward to all the good that is coming my way, because I deserve it, we all do!! xx