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Love Is Easy
Submitted by: Julie
Birmingham, UKI am 23, loving life and finally facing my fears and realizing just how wonderful life really is with the phenomenal force :)
Writing this today, after having read The Secret for the first time 6 years ago, I am just so excited to tell you what has happened for me!
Rhonda, the team and every other LOA teacher, I thank you so much for sharing this knowledge because my life has changed so much, I will never be able to tell you just how thankful I am!
I could write so much, but the one area of my life which is actually looking really bright right now is the one I will tell you about 🙂
Like everyone, we all have our ideal partners in mind but getting them, well that’s a different story. Or so I thought.
I have made lists in the past, but very brief and not really put my heart and soul into what I wanted or pondered over them too much. A few months ago I made a list literally 3 to 4 pages long just pouring my heart out with my ideal partner traits. I am 23 now, and never really had a proper boyfriend before, in fact, I mostly tried to steer clear of them, mostly out of fear. I got clear and realized I did actually know what I wanted. I listed everything from what I would like him to be interested in, his beliefs and how he would treat me. Examples include: we would play guitar together, we would plan trips together and have a really adventurous time.
I have never been on a dating site, and always said I would never. I am so thankful I took the advice from a close friend to finally join. Within 2 days of joining I had a message from a man who uncannily had very similar interests in music, comedy and travel to me and we went on our first date. We were talking loads, before the date, on the date and after the date, having so much in common.
In between this list and meeting him, I went travelling around Europe and had a great time and to be honest, I had totally forgotten about this list.
I have to mention just how shy I usually was with guys before, how I’d hardly any experience with them and how easily I was on giving in on things. This time was different.
I have seen this guy a few times now, and we have had the most ADVENTUROUS dates ever, rock climbing, skate boarding and it’s been truly amazing!
I came across that list I made today, just randomly, and realized just how similar he is to the things on this list. In fact, the only thing on it which hasn’t happened yet is the trips we do together, which we have just planned!!
When I read it I knew I had to come on here and spread the story because hopefully I have done it justice, writing it out.
I have never had something so precisely asked for, happen to me. This is in no way a coincidence, it is the LOA right in action! And my optimism and happiness is growing more by the day, I have to tell you!!
If you haven’t made your list, from the bottom of my heart you will not regret it! Do it!!! We really do choose our own paths!
Thank you so much LOA !